Yesterday.....
According to today's
regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 40's, 50's, 60's,
70's or even the early 80's, probably shouldn't have survived.
Our baby cribs were covered with bright
colored lead-based paint. We had no
childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets, and when we rode our
bikes, we had no helmets. (Not to
mention the risks we took hitchhiking.)
As children, we would ride in cars with
no seat belts or air bags. Riding
in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special treat. We drank water from the garden hose and
not from a bottle. Horrors!
We ate cupcakes, bread and butter, and
drank soda pop with sugar in it, but we were never overweight because we were
always outside playing.
We shared one soft drink with four
friends, from one bottle, and no one actually died from this.
We would spend hours building our
go-carts out of scraps and then rode down the hill, only to find out we forgot
the brakes. After running into the
bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem. We would leave home in the morning and
play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on. No one was able to reach us all
day. No cell phones. Unthinkable!
We did not have PlayStations, Nintendo
64, X-Boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, videotape movies,
surround sound, personal cell phones, personal computers, or Internet chat
rooms.
We had friends! We went outside and found them. We played dodge ball, and sometimes, the
ball would really hurt. We fell out
of trees, got cut and broke bones and teeth, and there were no lawsuits from
these accidents. They were
accidents. No one was to blame but
us. Remember accidents?
We had fights and punched each other
and got black and blue and learned to get over it. We made up games with sticks and tennis
balls and ate worms, and although we were told it would happen, we did not put
out very many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever.
We rode bikes or walked to a friend's
home and knocked on the door, or rang the bell or just walked in and talked to
them.
Little League had tryouts and not
everyone made the team. Those who
didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Some students weren't as smart as
others, so they failed a grade and were held back to repeat the same
grade. Horrors! Tests were not adjusted for any reason.
Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected, no one to
hide behind. The idea of a parent
bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law. Imagine that!
This generation has produced some of
the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever.
The past 50 years have been an
explosion of innovation and new ideas.
We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how
to deal with it all.
And you're one of them. Congratulations! Please pass this on to others who have
had the luck to grow up as kids, before lawyers and government regulated our
lives, for our own good.
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